Hello Betsy, re: teens- I don’t know but, however I’ve seen how my children wade me into every new factor. Like, thank god, they’re not born teens- you’ll have already got identified them their entire lives! Children ease you into every part like a shifting tide.
I liked my first being pregnant as a result of it was so SCIENCE, a self-contained magical science experiment rising inside me. And it was actually wonderful to expertise that, and the precise bodily connectivity with child. I do know many ladies have had losses and tough pregnancies, however there’s lots of magic available as properly.
My total considered having child(s)- doing it and never doing it are of equal worth, however If you wish to do it, don’t let worry of the factor be your information put up.
When you’re afraid of lack of self or high quality of life, however you wish to be a father or mother, think about “one.” It’s a lot extra frequent now, and life felt very
balanced with one. Good luck!